Do you really want to work there?
Look out for these red flags when considering a job offer
It’s tempting to see a job offer as an unequivocally good thing, but sometimes there are good reasons to avoid certain companies and situations.
Here are some red flags to look out for when interviewing and negotiating your salary.
You’ve probably heard me say that you should not disclose your current or expected salary when asked for it during your job interviews or salary negotiations.
A common follow up question to that guide is…
I didn’t disclose my current or expected salary, but now the recruiter says we can’t continue the process unless I share that information. What do I do?
There’s a bigger question at play here, and I think it’s worth taking a moment to consider when you run into that aggressive recruiter who won’t talk to you because you won’t share personal information with them.
So here’s my answer to that question:
Do you really want to work there?
This is a difficult message to communicate because it’s so counterintuitive. If you’re interviewing with a company and talking about salary numbers, of course you want to work there, right?
But maybe not. Let’s take a step back and look at the situation from a different vantage point.
Looking at the bigger picture
You want or need a job. This company has a job to be done, and they’re considering you as a candidate for that job.
So far, so good.
They have your resume, they know your work history, they have talked to you in interviews and over email. They know their budget for this particular job. They’ve probably done some market research to see what the going rate is for the kind of job they’re trying to fill. They know how many other candidates they’re considering. They know how badly they need to fill the job.
They already have a lot more information than you do.
Now they need to decide if you are the right candidate for the job.
But before they do that, they need to know your salary history and salary expectations. Huh? What does that have to do with anything?
If they want you to do the job and they know how much they have budgeted to fill the role, why not just make you an offer based on the value they think you’ll bring to the role?
Instead, they want even more information from you. Furthermore, they’re not willing to make you an offer based on the value they perceive you’ll bring to their company.
They’re taking a shot at getting that info—more power to them!
But you don’t have to share that info, so you reply, “I’d rather not say.”
If their response to that is, “We can’t continue.”, that’s a bad sign. It tells you that they’re looking for a good candidate with your qualifications who can do good work and add value to their company.
They’re looking for a bargain. You don’t want to be a bargain.
This may be the nicest they’ll ever be to you.
This is the courtship phase of your relationship: They should be trying to convince you to join their team. They should be selling you, which means there’s a good chance that this is the friendliest, most copacetic phase of your relationship with this company.
If they’re pushing you around and demanding your personal information while they’re trying to woo you to join their team what will it be like once they’ve convinced you to take the lowest salary they could offer and shunted you off to your desk in the basement?
How likely are they to give substantial raises for the high-quality work you will do? How flexible will they be when you want to explore a new career path?
This is difficult to do in practice. It will be a little uncomfortable.
But if you you don’t share your current or expected salary and the recruiter shuts down the conversation, that’s a big red flag that this isn’t the kind of company you want to work for. Find a better opportunity to work for a company that values you and your work.
Don’t be a commodity.
Jim felt like he ran into a dead end at his job, and missed being challenged and having opportunities to try new things. He had a strong Mechanical Engineering resume that landed him plenty of job interviews, but he struggled to get call-backs. So he hired me to help.
His interviewing technique improved dramatically as we worked together, and he made it through several rounds of interviews for an exciting opportunity at a promising company in his field.
It seemed like a job offer might be on the way!
The recruiter asked about his current salary, which he declined to share. She seemed a little frustrated, and shared the salary range for the role he had interviewed for. The range she provided looked like this:
Principle Mechanical Engineer: Low-end salary - Medium salary - High-end salary
She asked if that salary range and job title sounded reasonable. Jim said:
“…It’s hard to react without a specific offer including benefits and everything else, but that’s definitely in the ballpark! If we move on to the formal offer phase, and I have a chance to review all the details and a chance to talk things over with my family, I’ll be able to give a more specific response.”
This is where things start to get a little confusing. Remember, the recruiter said, “If we offer you this job with this salary range, would that be reasonable?” Jim basically said, “Sure, I would consider it!”
But the recruiter responded that…
The information you provided me is still very vague.
So if we made you an offer with the title : Principle Mechanical Engineer at [Medium salary from the range suggested earlier] + Benefits, you’ll consider it?
This was a mixed bag. On one hand, there’s definitely a red flag that the recruiter said she felt Jim was being vague, and then asked him if he would accept a hypothetical job offer.
On the other hand, at least we have a more precise number to work with now!
Yes, I would definitely consider an offer for the Principle Mechanical Engineer position with [that salary] plus other benefits.
As I mentioned, I would want to consider the salary among all other factors around pay and benefits, as well as consider the full opportunity with my family if and when we get there. But the offer you described sounds pretty good to me.
Now the recruiter had everything she needed to make an offer that she knew Jim would at least consider. We were just waiting for an offer to consider and negotiate.
Sure enough, she made an offer!
But the offer she actually made was below the “Medium salary” she had previously suggested with the hypothetical job offer. She had suggested a specific number in the hypothetical phase of the discussion, then reduced it by $4,000 when she made the actual offer.
Another red flag.
She also said Jim had 6 days to “accept, decline or counter” (her words) from the date I receive it officially.
At least she had firmly left the door open to negotiate. It seemed like the original “medium” salary was available, so we could hope to negotiate at least that amount.
Suddenly, things went sideways.
It was sort of a painful process to get a firm offer, but at least we knew the company would consider paying a higher salary than offered and the recruiter explicitly said countering was an option.
So Jim sent an email countering about 15% above the offer—still well below the “High salary” that the recruiter had shared earlier.
He quickly got a reply from the recruiter:
Well, this is why we discuss these things before we waste everyone’s time. I will bring your “counter offer” to my hiring team and HR.
And just a short while later, she followed up with:
You never provided your current salary. I provided you with compensation ranges and without this information all we have to go by is internal equity of the level as a Principal Mechanical Engineer (which is the highest you qualify for). We have declined your counter offer…
He emailed back asking if that meant they were fully retracting the offer or if it just meant that they were standing firm on the initial offer.
She didn’t respond to his email, so he called her directly. She didn’t answer and didn’t return his calls.
She totally ghosted him. Jim still hasn’t heard back from her since that last email.
Why we celebrated when Jim lost this job offer
You might be thinking, “Woah! That really blew up in Jim’s face!” But Jim and I ended up celebrating this as a huge victory. Why?
Here’s a short recap of Jim’s experience “negotiating” with the first company who eventually retracted the offer and stopped speaking to him:
- They asked for his current salary, but he didn’t share it.
- They suggested a range of salaries for the position - Low, Medium, High - and asked if he would consider an offer in the “Medium” range.
- He said he would consider such an offer.
- They made an offer below the “Medium” range they had suggested and said he could “accept, decline or counter” (those were the exact words from the recruiter).
- He chose “counter” and countered about 15% above their offer (still well below the “High” part of the range they told him earlier).
- The recruiter implied that talking to Jim had been a waste of time and that she would run his “counter offer” by HR.
- The recruiter then got back to Jim and said they had declined his counter offer.
- Jim asked for clarification on whether the original offer stood or not.
- The recruiter ignored him.
- Jim called the recruiter to talk about the situation.
- The recruiter ignored his calls and never returned his voicemails.
Looking back on that experience with the other company, one question keeps coming to mind:
WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD JIM WANT TO WORK FOR A COMPANY THAT TREATS CANDIDATES THAT WAY?!
The recruiting process is typically when the company wants to put its best foot forward and make the best impression so they attract the best candidates to join their team.
This isn’t a simple case of “Jim negotiated so they pulled the job offer.”
The recruiter suggested they would offer a salary higher than they did, and asked Jim to pre-commit to accepting it. When she offered a lower-than-suggested salary and he negotiated well within the range they told him the job would pay, he completely stopped talking to him. She even mocked his “counter offer” a little bit and implied he had wasted her time.
So if this experience is the best they have to offer, what’s it like to actually work for them? Probably pretty awful.
Fortunately, Jim had been interviewing with another company at the same time. They made a slightly better offer and were very friendly throughout the subsequent negotiation. Now he’s working there, making more money and he loves what he’s doing and feels great about the career opportunities that lie ahead of him at a solid company.
That’s something worth celebrating.